Over at Of Sound Mind and Spirit, I’m answering a few questions (in 140 characters or less, I’d like to add) about Catholic Family Fun, my writing process, my playlists, and yes, my favorite activity from the book.
just another day of Catholic pondering by Sarah Reinhard
Over at Of Sound Mind and Spirit, I’m answering a few questions (in 140 characters or less, I’d like to add) about Catholic Family Fun, my writing process, my playlists, and yes, my favorite activity from the book.
If you haven’t heard of Christina Ries, you’ve surely heard of a website that she’s highly involved with: Catholic Match.
If you’re like me, you follow her Twenty Something columns in your diocesan newspaper (which still have her maiden name, Capecchi, on them).
The official scoop: Christina’s an award-winning writer and editor from St. Paul, Minnesota. She earned her master’s in journalism at Northwestern University’s Medill School of Journalism. She has a love for the Twins and grilled cheese, from what I understand.

I got my hands on Christina Ries’s new book, The Catholic Playbook: Lenten Reflections for Singles, but didn’t have time during Lent to do anything with it.
It’s a great book, though, and Christina was kind enough to entertain a few of my questions.
What inspired you to start writing?
I’ve been compelled to tell stories since I was a young girl, even before I could write. It’s a way to make sense of my world, to figure out how I feel and why and to share my most dearly held hopes and ideals.
What advice would you give other Catholic writers?
Let creativity flow! Read great stuff, study it, pass it on. Dwell in that place of inspiration.
And don’t save your best stuff for later. Use it today. It could open doors and spark new ideas.
If you were to share one piece of wisdom, what would it be?
Never underestimate the power of gratitude. It opens our eyes and our hearts to life’s blessings, which can then multiply.
Mary Oliver described gratitude as a way of living: “Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” That is the charge of a writer and of a Catholic.
I’m proud to come from a long line of women who send handwritten thank-you notes. They’ve taught me that gratitude isn’t a state, it’s an action. In our age of texting and tweeting, I find it therapeutic to pick up a pen, seal an envelope, press a stamp and drop my thoughts into the mailbox.
And don’t rule out the people closest to you. This past December was the first time I’ve ever sent my parents a thank-you note for my Christmas gifts. I guess they were just never on the list. They were the ones I could skip, you know?
To prepare I jotted all the presents they’d given me on a scrap of paper so I wouldn’t leave anything out – they’re very generous – and the day the card arrived my dad made a special trip to give me a hug and tell me it was the best thank-you note he’d ever received.
Totally worth 44 cents.
What do you hope people take away from your book?
I’m pleased with the variety of reflections contained in The Catholic Playbook: Lenten Reflections for Singles. Bishop Kevin Rhoades said they express “the full range of human emotions,” and he’s right.
I hope the book reminds people that wherever they’re at, however they feel, whatever they’re struggling with, there’s a place for all those emotions in prayer and in the Christian life. We can fold all our trials and triumphs into Lent – or any liturgical season. As Catholic mothers across generations have been known to say, we can “offer it up.”
What’s your favorite part of the book?
The second reflection, which begins on page 15. It was written by a Wisconsin widow named Barb who lost her husband and son in a short period and is now welcoming her second grandchild, Grace Elizabeth, and trying to rediscover joy.
“God is good all the time,” Barb writes, “we just have to read between the lines.”
Barb contributes to the CatholicMatch blog, which I manage. We publish original material every day, and her essays are lovely. You can read them here.
In daily life it’s easy to forget about widows and widowers. That’s why they are so grateful for CatholicMatch’s supportive community, where they can heal and pray with others who have been through the loss of a spouse and are hoping for another great love.
This week it was quite a pleasure to talk with Jeff Young on the latest Catholic Foodie. During our discussion about Holy Week, I shared one of my passions: Holy Thursday. We talked about Catholic Family Fun, too, and about how important it is to spend time as a family.
Bonus: you’ll learn what “sacramental principle” is. (I hadn’t heard that phrase before, but the word nerd in me just loves it!)
I get quite a few review books, which is a slice of heaven for me. I’m buried in them, right now, wishing I could read faster, more often, faster, more often…
Recently, an author asked me if they could send me their novel. I said yes, with the caveat that I may or may not get to it in a timely manner (which means in the next year).
The author has been very gracious about that, and even shared a joke with me by email.
Because you might need a smile too, here’s the joke:
The Pope gets off his plane in DC and into the limo. He says to the driver, “Joe, its been years since I drove a car. Can I drive?”
The driver says, “Sure, Holy Father,” and then jumps into the back seat and raises the screen between them.
After a few miles, the Pope gets pulled over for speeding.
The cop is in an awkward posiiton, so he calls dispatch and says, “Hey, I got a really important guy here that I really don’t want to ticket…don’t we have a VIP program?”
The dispatcher answers, “Whaddaya got, the Mayor or somethin?”The cop says, “No, way bigger than that.”
Dispatch says, “A Senator?”
“Nope, even bigger,” says the cop.Finally the dispatcher says, “Don’t tell me you pulled over the President?”
The cop finally whispers. ”No, I think it might Jesus, cause the Pope’s drivin His car!”

Speaking of review books, there’s a great pile of books for the younger set that I am reviewing at CatholicMom.com this week, including one that I gave to my sister-in-law for her birthday.
Also, at CatholicMom.com this week, in my Tech Talk column this week, I review a great new app that might help you to pray the rosary by teaching you a whole new approach to it.
Exciting news about Catholic Family Fun:
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I’m trying not to post three times a day about book-related stuff, but it’s hard.
There’s a weeeee bit of excitement.
Case in point: best friend got her copy the other day. She read it in all its early draft ugliness, so there was no surprises for her. And yet, she told me, she had forgotten how good it was.
Humbled, folks. Truly, honestly humbled.
Not that this project hasn’t humbled me all to pieces already. You only have to look at what other people are saying to know that I am put in my place and completely bewildered how this came from me.
I love-love-LOVE spring, don’t you? My latest Mary Moment on iPadre is all about loving spring and loving Mary.
I also love-love-LOVE Saint Joseph, and so does Jeff Young. The latest Catholic Foodie is all things Joseph, including great information about Saint Joseph altars. My Mary in the Kitchen is a tribute to Joseph, too, and a bit of reflecting on this new role of mine as boy-mom.
Thanks to Steven McEvoy for interviewing me over at Book Reviews and More. He sent me the most extensive interview I’ve done to date. He asked me what I’d do if I wasn’t a writer, how I knew I’d be a writer, and he even asked how my writing process goes. He pointed out that I’m in a lot of different places and I told him how I do that. And then he gave me a chance to explain my typical day.
If any of this interests you about me, stop over and give it a read!
I promised winners today, so here you go!
Since no one entered in the actual giveaway for a Snoring Scholar SurPrize Pack (we’ll chalk that up to a marketing FAIL), I pulled names from random comments I’ve received in the last week.
(commented on The Beauty of Spiritual Direction)
(commented on The Mighty Macs Review & Giveaway)
(commented on Leading Me to Jesus)
Each of you will receive a Snoring Scholar SurPrize Pack, which will have a copy of my new book, Catholic Family Fun: A Guide for the Adventurous, Overwhelmed, Creative, or Clueless, as well as a book from my giveaway box (there are some good titles in there, I assure you).
The winner of the Table Grace Die is:
Winners, send me your address (contact info is on the sidebar of my blog), and we’ll get everything mailed right away.
Thanks to the folks at Catholic Family Gifts for sponsoring the Table Grace Die giveaway.
There’s still time to enter my giveaway of THE MIGHTY MACS (which my girls will probably try to get us to watch again this weekend).
Have a great weekend!
More Quick Takes at Conversion Diary.
I reviewed Dr. Michael Norman’s book, Unbridled Grace: A True Story about the Power of Choice, last week, and had the chance to ask him a few questions. Here’s what he shared with me and graciously agreed to let me share with you.
Throughout our ordeal, there were times of incredible darkness, seemingly insurmountable obstacles and protracted periods with no human hope. Despite this, especially when the pain was most severe, I received tremendous comfort praying my rosary. It allowed me (and remains so today) to “pull away” to a place of peaceful solace and escape the pain. This practice served to overpower the darkness of evil that attempted to envelop myself and my family.
During my rosary, I truly felt embraced by our Lord and His Blessed Mother despite what we were facing. In addition, during some of the darkest days when the opportunity for rosary was unavailable to me, I remember another tremendous comfort that I held on to. In just a few short hours, I will be praying my rosary and I can escape all of this!
Remaining strong through our 6 year ordeal was certainly not easy. The emotional roller coaster of highs and lows was incredibly draining and exhausting and the temptation to quit sometimes became very overwhelming. Some days you are only holding on by a mere thread.
It is certainly God who ultimately sustains all of us, but He does need our cooperation as well. I remember my periods of greatest strength occurred when I kept my focus on eternity and not the world. As I did, my choices began to reflect eternal standards and not worldly standards and God’s will became manifest in our lives. Also, I tried to remain focused on living for and seeking to honor only 2 areas of my life: God and my family. (Nothing else mattered to me).
I was most strengthened by my Catholic faith upon my discovery of our beautiful theology of redemptive suffering. Nobody else in all my searching had remotely come close to answering the question of suffering for me. As I embraced and carried this cross, I began to receive the most incredible gift that is His grace. As this grew stronger within me, I was then able to share it with my family who grew stronger as well and united all of us together through this storm.
These were the occasions I felt so close to God as to hear His voice and participate in His thoughts. As we embraced the cross, this gift of grace enveloped us in peace through some of the lowest points of our ordeal. The cross is how He truly chose to unite with us. Looking back now, I realize I was never so close to God as during this time of suffering.
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Dr. Michael J. Norman is a chiropractor in private practice in Dallas, Texas. His new book, Unbridled Grace: A True Story about the Power of Choice, is available on his website, through your local bookstore, or in a variety of online venues.
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I’m back to working out intensely twice a week. I took most of the summer off, so this is week 2. Butt = kicked.
It’s zumba, a sort of Latin dance thing (there’s a video here, and I look about like the guy in the back). We are a bunch of moms, not one of us under 30 (I think), except for the kids who get dragged along. I never would have expected to like it, but there are a couple of factors keeping me going back:
(1) A good friend and I call or text each other. If one of us misses, the other is haranguing her. Accountability is a good thing.
(2) The instructor is really laid back. In fact, she’s a lot of fun. In fact, I like her. Even though she causes me a lot of pain.
(3) The sweating isn’t so bad. The pain isn’t so bad. The laughing is great. I know all the ladies (it’s a group from our parish), and when I feel like it’s too much, I just look over at the 72-year-old lady beside me and realize I could slow down, take a drink, and start over.
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I haven’t noticed that exercise is good for my mental health. I know the facts support that, but I think having a routine will help me more than the exercise, to be honest. And next week, school starts.
School = routine.
Yay!
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Speaking of school, I thought we were all set with school supplies and such. Then my husband looked at me, a bit shocked, and declared that our six-year-old, who will be entering first grade, needed a new outfit. And probably new shoes.
Said six-year-old was in complete agreement.
So, on Wednesday, I sucked it up, found an aunt to take the three-year-old, and took her to the store.
Where I bought her a new outfit and new shoes.
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Those shoes? They were SIZE FIVE!
I’m still in shock. She’s tall, yes, but SIZE FIVE?!?
And then a friend of mine told me that it probably translates into a women’s size seven.
I need a fainting couch.
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My nieces have been cleaning out their closets, and it’s with much rejoicing that I find myself as the aunt who can take hand-me-downs from nieces who are taller and more stylish than me.
That does not, however, make me fabulous, though a writer who I admire very much interviewed me recently and flattered me by calling me just that in her title. Do stop over to see the interesting questions Ginny Kubitz Moyer of Random Acts of Momness posed for me.
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Back to school for kids means back to a stricter writing schedule for me (and the acknowledgement of a looming deadline). Is that why I’m pondering where my office really is on the latest Mary in the Kitchen on the Catholic Foodie podcast? Maybe. Or maybe I’m just in my kitchen a lot.
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Arwen, Lisa, and I discussed girlfriends and mom survival this week on the Faith & Family podcast, and I’d love to hear what you think about these topics. I’m not in survival mode the way Arwen is, but I’m in a tough stretch lately, all the same. Listen in and let us know what you think!
Be sure to visit Jen at Conversion Diary for Quick Takes Friday!
He’s also now officially an author, and his book is GREAT. He was gracious enough to answer some questions I tossed his way, and then patient enough to bear with me when I forgot to get my act together before my trip and post it. Enjoy!

Tell us a little about what inspired you to compile The Church and New Media: Blogging Converts, Online Activists, and Bishops Who Tweet.
Well, as I looked around the world of online Catholicism, I noticed a few things.First, the institutional Church–including parishes, dioceses, and the Vatican–was barely using new media. Second, plenty of individual Catholics were doing great things through blogs, social networks, podcasting, and interactive websites. Third, a number of Catholics understand the potential of new media, but don’t know where to begin. And if they do know the basics, they don’t know how to use new media faithfully and effectively.
So the book was written in response to that landscape. It familiarizes Catholics with the “digital continent” and provides examples, tips, and advice on how to engage it.
This project must have been a huge undertaking. How did it evolve–and even surprise you–from start to finish?
Putting the book together was fairly challenging. A book with one author is difficult enough, but one with twelve contributors, a Foreword author, an Afterword author, and a couple dozen sidebars–each including quotes from experts or Church documents–was a real logistical challenge. I really should’ve thanked GMail in the Acknowledgement section for without it I would have been swamped by the hundreds of emails pertaining to the book.
I think the most surprising thing, though, was that everyone I asked to participate gave me an enthusiastic ”Yes!” The contributors are some of the best teachers, writers, and activists within the Church, and many of them are personal heroes of mine. So I was blown away by their willingness to take part.
It’s kind of like writing a letter to the Olympic Dream Team, inviting them to shoot hoops with you in your driveway, and then one day hearing them ring your doorbell asking if you’re ready.
What was your favorite part of the book?
Oh, this is a really difficult question–it’s like deciding which of your children is your favorite! I loved every chapter for different reasons and I think different audiences will each appreciate different chapters.
What part of your book do you think Mary and Jesus most enjoy or approve of?
Great question! Since Mary always points to the mission of her son–”do whatever he tells you”–and the mission of Jesus is the mission of the Church, I think the whole book would please both of them. For the whole book looks at how new media can serve this same mission: to evangelize, to form, to cultivate community, and to bring about justice.
Considering how surprising and startling both Jesus and Mary are, however, they would probably say their favorite part was the Acknowledgment section, for both are humble of heart.
What challenges do you see facing us as Catholics as New Media grows to be even more a part of how we communicate?
I think the two biggest challenges are actually opposites of each other. As in the rest of the spiritual life, the danger lies in embracing one of two extremes. For example, when it comes to sexuality, the two dangers are puritanism, a rejection of all things sexual or bodily, and indulgence, which is an overvaluing of sex and the body. Chastity is the healthy middle-ground.
With Catholics and new media, the two extremes are avoidance, which usually results from fear, and uncritical adoption, which considers new media to be God’s greatest gift to mankind. I think the wiser response is what I call “prudent engagement.” With caution and awareness of the new media’s danger, we can maximize its power while minimizing its problems.
In my Conclusion to the book I lay out twelve future trends in the Church and new media relationship–six positive and six negative– that help people approach new media with wisdom and prudence.
How do intend your book–and the accompanying website–to help readers as they use New Media?
The website, www.churchandnewmedia.com, will act as an organic extension of the book. It will enable individual Catholics, parishes, and dioceses to use new media effectively by providing extra content not found in the book. To that end we’ve got an active blog where we post relevant tips and articles, and a pretty robust Resources section that should help out a lot of people.
What projects are you working on next? Do you have anything coming as a result of this project?
In terms of new media, my big project is maintaining www.churchandnewmedia.com. The book is only the beginning of this Catholic new media conversation, one I hope we’ll see happening in more places and for many more years.
In terms of future book projects, I’m already working on another book dealing with one of the Church’s dirtiest topics:”social-justice”. Catholic social teaching was one of the most alluring things that drew me into the Church three years ago, yet I think the topic has been mostly ignored, misinterpreted, and hijacked. So I wanted to write a practical book that would illuminate Catholic social teaching through the lives of the saints. I want to show simple ways that we can live with justice and compassion by gazing on the blueprint laid out by the saints.
Here at Snoring Scholar, you'll find marriage and motherhood, book talk and rambling remarks, observations and distractions, in the midst of life in rural Ohio on a farm, with kids, critters, and Catholic flair.
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