And Jeff, the Catholic Foodie Extraordinaire, has a new site! And look! There’s a whole section devoted to Mary in the Kitchen! Check it out!
Tech Talk Tuesdays & From the Kitchen
Mary and My Mom
A Mary Moment Monday post
My relationship with Mama Mary has seemed to grow almost accidentally. Maybe I was looking for a mom when I found the Catholic Church. Maybe I was looking for more than just a mom, but I needed a mom to lead me to it.
Today, as my real mom celebrates her birthday, I can’t help but smile that it’s also the original feast of one of my favorite saints, Therese of Lisieux, the Little Flower. (Her feast was moved to October 1 after 1969.)
Therese has been a good friend of mine over the years. We don’t seem to have a lot in common, but I continue to learn a lot from her. As I struggle with her little way–doing small things with great love–I naturally think of the moms in my life.
I don’t think I really appreciated my mom until I had my own kids. It’s cliche to say that, I know, but it’s true.
I didn’t realize how brave she had been until I found myself fighting for my own kids.
I didn’t see how much I must have hurt her until I saw the weak spots in my own emotional armor, imagined my children being like I was (and am).
My mom’s not perfect–and neither am I. In fact, I face a huge hurdle when I think of my Heavenly Mama and how perfect she was–and is.
How in the world do you relate with someone who’s perfect and who raised a perfect kid?
Mama Mary found me. She scraped me up off the floor and held me.
Her intercession has led me to reconciliation–both the sacrament and the experience in my own life. She has led me, again and again, to her Son–in the Eucharist at Mass, in the Blessed Sacrament at Adoration, in the people around me.
Today, on my real mom’s birthday, I want to encourage you to embark on this October with a rosary in your hand. Think of your moms–the one here on earth and the one up in heaven–and say a prayer or ten for them. If you’re as blessed like I am to have extra moms, pray for them as well, whether they’re stepmoms or moms-in-law or special mom-figures.
What better gift than a month of prayers for the important women in our life? I think St. Therese would approve, don’t you?
image credit: ClearlyCatholic.com
Do you love the rosary?
If so, I’d love to hear from you!
I’m pulling together guest posts for October for here on my blog, and if you’re interested, take a look at my guidelines, and send me an email.
Looking forward to hearing from you and reading what you have to say!
My New Favorite Rosary
A Mary Moment Monday post
I can’t seem to keep a rosary, especially one I love. In early August, at the Catholic Marketing Network show, I found a rosary that was so great, and when I nabbed it for $10, I was pretty sure I had a new favorite rosary. The beads were smooth and small and a beautiful shade of blue, there was a medal of John Paul II, and there were Divine Mercy medals between the decades. There was even a bit of soil from Fatima. It was small and didn’t seem to tangle.
I was so excited to find it! I showed it to everyone that day, and on the drive home, I held it in my hand and prayed on it.
And then I realized: this wasn’t my rosary after all.
This happens to me a lot. I find a rosary that’s perfect, that speaks to me and seems to call me to pray on it. When I pray on it, though, I will sometimes find that someone’s on my heart. I picture my guardian angel whispering (or shouting, since I’m so thick) and encouraging me.
Other times, I find someone who just seems to need a rosary and…all I have is the rosary I dearly love.
Rosaries, it seems, are not meant for me to keep. I break ‘em in and pass ‘em along.
A few weeks ago, as I was organizing the Marian Novena of Giveaways we hosted last week at CatholicMom.com, I was emailing a gushing thanks to Melanie from Trendy Traditions for her participation, when she offered something I couldn’t believe.
She offered to make me a rosary.
My very own rosary. Made just for me.
I was so excited, but then, I’ll admit, I forgot about it.
Then, last week, she sent me an email, with a picture attached:
One of the things that led me to start making rosaries was my love for meaningful, personalized gifts. When making rosaries, I really want them to “fit” the recipient. This is easy when someone picks out their own but I love the challenge of creating for folks I don’t know well.
All this is to say, for some reason I agonized over yours. I thought about red & black since you like the Buckeyes but you also seem to embrace your femininity and inner-princess so I thought the dark colors might be too much.
Your amazing love and admiration of our Blessed Mother led me to a Mary blue for accents and I ended up using pink as the primary color. Hopefully you will enjoy it and I have attached a picture so you can take a peek. The pink beads are dyed stone and the blue are glass.
And then I opened the picture to see this:
When it came, I still found myself marveling over it. For one thing, it’s a lot larger than it looked in that picture. For another, it has a weight and a feel to it that’s just right. I can’t explain it better, except to say, wow!
Melanie is a wife and mom who does this because, as she told me in an email, it’s her “lot in life to give away rosaries.” She sells them through Trendy Traditions (which also has a Facebook page).
These are rosaries that are made to endure the curious pulling and tugging of a toddler, the dropping and shuffling of a busy mom, and the general heave-ho a rosary has to endure when it’s mine for the long haul.
From the bio Melanie submitted for CatholicMom.com:
When she rediscovered the rosary as an adult after years of spiritual wandering, Melanie became passionate about creating rosary designs that appeal to younger generations in the hope that her unique designs would assist them to keep devotion to the rosary alive. As a lover of meaningful gift giving, personalized custom rosaries are her specialties. She uses high-gauge stainless steel wire to craft her rosaries, making them unlikely to break or need repair.
I think I’ve found one of my new favorite gifts (to give and to receive), though this rosary will probably be mine for quite a while! (Until, that is, I find another Sarah who needs a rosary…)
(Though I did receive a rosary, Melanie did NOT send it to me in exchange for this post. I’m just raving about it because I love her work!)
Prayer, the Secret to Our Success
A Mary Moment Monday post
Last March, I tried my hand at Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary, using a $5 book and resources from Rosary Army. I feel like I mostly failed, though maybe just sticking with it to the end is a success of sorts. As with so many things in my faith life, I felt nothing. Nada. Zilch. No great insight, no wonderful choirs suddenly behind me, no rainbows and starshine around me.
God’s definition of success is different than mine, and I’ve come to accept that. Sometimes, what I find I have to do won’t score me a whole lot of emotional mileage. And that’s okay. It’s probably as much a product of who I am as anything else.
I heard about the new online resource for Total Consecration just as it was sort of tickling around in my mind. Then I clicked and read,
God brought you here for a purpose.
Guess that hint of a question, the one that had me thinking that maybe I should try this again, was answered.
Especially when I saw that it starts on July 13 and ends on the feast of the Assumption.
Especially when I considered what I have going on–only one major project, as opposed to three at once–and how I’ve been feeling a bit adrift in certain areas.
Especially…well, you get the drift.
If you’ve never done this devotion before (I’m still stumbling along with the right terminology–is it “making your Total Consecration” or “completing it” or what? And can I call it TC for short?), maybe you’ll find this site as helpful as I am.
What I especially like is how the sponsors of this website are trying to build interest and participation in this devotion. You can sign up to receive free materials (US and Canada only, though there’s an email address if you live somewhere else). You can also sign up to be a parish leader, and you’ll receive a packet along with a DVD that explains everything.
MyConsecration.org excites me for a number of reasons. First, it’s promoting a devotion that I know is important. Second, it’s making that devotion accessible both online AND offline. Third, it’s extending helpful material and a step-by-step process to people within parishes.
That last one seems key to me. I’m a parish employee, and in the six-plus years that I’ve gone from working full-time in the office to part-time from home, I have seen just how challenging religious formation is. We’re all busy, and the people who are on fire with their faith are also swamped with about a million other projects. The people with questions don’t always know enough to know who to ask or how to ask them.
Who better to help us than the Mother of God? Who more equipped for the monumental task of ongoing catechesis than the very woman who must have taught Jesus his first words?
I hope you’ll join me on this journey to Jesus through Mary. We’ll start July 13, and whether it’s a “success” in our eyes or not, we’ll be firmly holding Mary’s hand as she tugs us closer to her Son.
–
In my work email, I found this great link, Rosary for America on July 4th. I’m so glad that I (a) opened the email (it was flagged as a “FWD” and oh, how I avoid those, most of the time) and (b) opened it in time to share it here. You fill out a pledge form, committing to praying a rosary for our nation and asking Our Lady to save America and solve all our nation’s problem. While that intention is worded a little differently than I’d like, the spirit behind this–praying for our nation–gets at the heart of what I think we should all be doing.
We were founded as a Christian nation, and whatever else we might be becoming, there’s always hope. Right?
So grab your rosary (or your ten fingers, or your favorite rosary app, or your mp3 rosary audio), and offer it for the grand old U. S. of A.
Stormy and Overcast with a Guarantee of Writing
Around the house: The girls are watching PBS; the baby is sleeping. The dishwasher (still a novelty!) is purring across the kitchen.
In my thoughts: My three-year-old has been uber-whiny of late. My grandmother gently suggested that I need to take her into my lap more, cuddle with her, give her more one-on-one attention. I’m trying to focus on that this week.
In my plans: I am in the home stretch, says my editor at Pauline, of the editing process for my book. This is the book I was writing last summer, pregnant with the baby whose naps punctuate my day now. I’ve been surprised at how much I’ve been enjoying the editing process–I credit the lovely folks at Pauline for that. And beyond that? I have another big writing project I have to buckle down on and a week of “recovery” slated for next week. Two weeks of Confirmation boot camp (which I plan to blog about at some point) really wore me out and hampered my unpacking, cleaning, and, well, everything! It was, however, a time of great blessings for me.
In thanksgiving: For the young people who will be confirmed in November. For the young children in my house who have been hugging me a lot in the last few days. For chocolate chip muffins. For hot coffee. For friends who text me smiles.
In my prayers: A special intention. A friend’s sorrow. A family’s grief.
Nose inserted: I have been pleasantly surprised by how much I’m enjoying Dancing with Gravity, by Anene Tressler. I can’t remember why she sent it to me (I need to research that!), but it’s finally made it to the top of my review pile and…it’s not bad so far!
Recent reads: These books deserve full-length reviews, and they will certainly get them. Here are my quickie thoughts:
- Save the Date, by Jenny B. Jones: It’s snappy and sassy. I couldn’t put it down, as much because I wasn’t quite sure what was going to happen next as because the writing was flawless. Jones’ characters are believable and entertaining. I laughed out loud more than once and can barely wait to share this book with my friends. This was the kind of book that will have me checking out what else the author has written: it’s that good! HIGHLY recommended.
- Living the Rosary: Finding Your Life in the Mysteries, by John Phalen: When I twittered that I was reading this, Matt Swaim wrote me back and told me that Phalen “nailed it” in this book. I can’t think of a better way to say it. Phalen applies each mystery of the rosary to his life in a tangible way, and then invites the reader to do the same. He finds applications for it in unexpected ways and places and I find myself considering things differently thanks to the perspective of this book. It gets my highest recommendation!
A favorite thing: The constant supply of artwork my six-year-old is making. She has a brand-new one subject notebook nearly full!
Food for thought: “Regina pacis, ora pro nobis — Queen of peace, pray for us. Have you at least tried it when you have lost your calm? You will be surprised at its immediate effect.” – St. Josemaria Escriva, via a Mary Vitamin earlier this week
Finding Devotion to Mary
A guest post by Noelle Mador
It has been a long six year journey with my devotion to Mary. Six years ago, I felt as if my life was falling apart. I was Catholic, but felt lost and struggling in my prayer life.
I was in the midst of a nervous breakdown. Life didn’t turn out the way I expected. I had stopped praying a lot of prayers I was taught as a child. It was a dark time of my soul.
In quiet prayer and reflection at church one morning, I was prodded to pray the rosary again. This warmth of love came over my soul. My devotion to Mary started at that point in my life. It is amazing that the darkest periods in your life become your most courageous times.
After that day, my miraculous healing with one rosary, I kept praying. God healed me through the rosary. I prayed scriptural rosaries, while meditating on each mystery.
While at a women’s gathering at church, I was introduced to the Father DeGrandis Rosary CD, “Healing through the Rosary.” It has beautiful songs dedicated to Our Blessed Mother, along with scriptural meditations. I now use it for my prayer walk every morning. I usually end up doing one decade, possibly two, when I walk. It has been a saving grace to start my day that way. The Blessed Mother and the rosary have vastly helped our homeschool journey by starting my day this way. She has shown me patience and calmness with my family through this morning routine. It is truly amazing how alive I feel after a prayer walk.
I also have a very special devotion to Our Lady of Guadalupe. Four years ago, I had some medical issues with my mouth. In the process, I lost a tooth and got a serious jaw infection. Being in pain and using pain medication, I thought I was delirious because I smelled roses in the winter. As I slept that night I saw Our Lady of Guadalupe in a dream, and decided to wear her scapular again. Years before I stopped wearing a scapular because I never really understood the reasoning for it. That night God showed me why I needed it. Within a week, the infection was gone and I was up out of bed. I have wore that scapular since that day.
The world outside is a difficult one. Mary keeps me stable in walking in Jesus’ light. This doesn’t mean I don’t falter, it just means I am not walking alone anymore. I have Jesus carrying me, while The Blessed Mother is walking beside being my mother nurturing me. I can feel her hand over my head saying it will be okay.
Life is full of obstacles. God never said life wouldn’t be difficult. He said we would overcome. He is always besides us. He gave us this amazing mother to help guide us on His Path. I feel so blessed everyday that she has guided me toward her and to her son. Her intercession and her love has truly changed me.
Noelle Mador blogs at Abiding Faith and is a certified special education and elementary education teacher. She homeschools her two children, who are 12 and 13. She has been consulting with homeschooling families for years about school curricula. She has an online tutoring business, ELCAT 4 U, which offers tutoring, online classes, and consulting services.

Here at Snoring Scholar, you'll find marriage and motherhood, book talk and rambling remarks, observations and distractions, in the midst of life in rural Ohio on a farm, with kids, critters, and Catholic flair.











