Prayer, the Secret to Our Success

A Mary Moment Monday post

Last March, I tried my hand at Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary, using a $5 book and resources from Rosary Army. I feel like I mostly failed, though maybe just sticking with it to the end is a success of sorts. As with so many things in my faith life, I felt nothing. Nada. Zilch. No great insight, no wonderful choirs suddenly behind me, no rainbows and starshine around me.

God’s definition of success is different than mine, and I’ve come to accept that. Sometimes, what I find I have to do won’t score me a whole lot of emotional mileage. And that’s okay. It’s probably as much a product of who I am as anything else.

I heard about the new online resource for Total Consecration just as it was sort of tickling around in my mind. Then I clicked and read,

God brought you here for a purpose.

Guess that hint of a question, the one that had me thinking that maybe I should try this again, was answered.

Especially when I saw that it starts on July 13 and ends on the feast of the Assumption.

Especially when I considered what I have going on–only one major project, as opposed to three at once–and how I’ve been feeling a bit adrift in certain areas.

Especially…well, you get the drift.

If you’ve never done this devotion before (I’m still stumbling along with the right terminology–is it “making your Total Consecration” or “completing it” or what? And can I call it TC for short?), maybe you’ll find this site as helpful as I am.

What I especially like is how the sponsors of this website are trying to build interest and participation in this devotion. You can sign up to receive free materials (US and Canada only, though there’s an email address if you live somewhere else). You can also sign up to be a parish leader, and you’ll receive a packet along with a DVD that explains everything.

MyConsecration.org excites me for a number of reasons. First, it’s promoting a devotion that I know is important. Second, it’s making that devotion accessible both online AND offline. Third, it’s extending helpful material and a step-by-step process to people within parishes.

That last one seems key to me. I’m a parish employee, and in the six-plus years that I’ve gone from working full-time in the office to part-time from home, I have seen just how challenging religious formation is. We’re all busy, and the people who are on fire with their faith are also swamped with about a million other projects. The people with questions don’t always know enough to know who to ask or how to ask them.

Who better to help us than the Mother of God? Who more equipped for the monumental task of ongoing catechesis than the very woman who must have taught Jesus his first words?

I hope you’ll join me on this journey to Jesus through Mary. We’ll start July 13, and whether it’s a “success” in our eyes or not, we’ll be firmly holding Mary’s hand as she tugs us closer to her Son.

In my work email, I found this great link, Rosary for America on July 4th. I’m so glad that I (a) opened the email (it was flagged as a “FWD” and oh, how I avoid those, most of the time) and (b) opened it in time to share it here. You fill out a pledge form, committing to praying a rosary for our nation and asking Our Lady to save America and solve all our nation’s problem. While that intention is worded a little differently than I’d like, the spirit behind this–praying for our nation–gets at the heart of what I think we should all be doing.

We were founded as a Christian nation, and whatever else we might be becoming, there’s always hope. Right?

So grab your rosary (or your ten fingers, or your favorite rosary app, or your mp3 rosary audio), and offer it for the grand old U. S. of A.

The Friday Seven

1: Total Consecration

For anyone interested, the next cycle of preparation Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary starts today. This is inspired by St. Louis de Montfort’s classic True Devotion to Mary. You’ll find all the prayers and readings — for print or for audio download — at this awesome website. I purchased a $5 book with the prayers and readings in it (because otherwise, it will be all too easy for me to fail).

If you don’t make this cycle, there’s another one starting April 28, and quite a few others through the year. They’re set up so that the 33-day preparation time precedes a consecration day that is on a Marian feast or commemoration. (But, really, I’m botching that explanation. Go read the full scoop for yourself.)

As I told someone who emailed me recently, what do you have to lose?

2: Yakkin’ It Up

If you have any inclination, I’m talking about St. Joseph in “Mary in the Kitchen” on the latest Catholic Foodie, sharing a quote about Mary and rainbows in my “Mary Moment” on this week’s Catholic Moments, and admitting to my slacker mom tendencies (with a laugh) with Arwen and Lisa on the Faith & Family podcast this week.

3: Rosary Workout

The weather was getting nicer (I woke up to snow this morning…piles of it, along with bad roads), and I can feel myself longing to get outside. I dusted off my journal and thought wistfully of my Rosary Workout plans from the fall.

Though I love gadgets, I don’t have an e-reader. The e-book format of Rosary Workout just didn’t work for me, though the principles behind it did. (I raved, as you will recall.)

And then I heard that THE ROSARY WORKOUT IS A BOOK NOW. (Be warned: there is much rejoicing and yelling in glee right now.)

So…what are you waiting for? My copy is on its way to me, and I’m sure there will be more happy sounds from me.

4: An Unexpected Fast

Yesterday, my husband asked if he could take our Verizon MiFi with him for work. He was going to be on-site and it would make his work easier.

And so, yesterday, I had an unexpected internet fast. I could still tweet from my phone, and I had a few updates that went there, but it was a different day than it would have been otherwise.

Had I planned it, there would have been a different tone to it. Had my husband not requested to take the MiFi, I might have procrastinated. I couldn’t be online during the hours when I am most likely to, whether to respond to email or finish up a parish project or various things online.

Needless to say, the laundry is folded and put away. What I didn’t expect was my calm this morning.

I’m going to have to try this again.

5: Internet Connections for the Rural Folk

I have reasons to need a high-speed internet connection. We have had various Verizon products for a few years, starting with their air card and, most recently purchasing their MiFi.

In a word: ICK.

I know, rationally, that my connection speeds are faster than they were in the days of dial-up (which weren’t that long ago for us). But when I find myself at my mother-in-law’s, using her “light” cable connection, I can’t help but grumble to myself about how slllloooowwww and unreliable our speeds are. Right now, before 7 AM, things are fast as they’ll. But in a few hours, it will clog…and on the weekend? Well, good luck.

Any suggestions? Am I dreaming that there’s a better solution than the one we already have?

6: Holy Thursday

We’re getting our feet washed again on Thursday. Though it’s one of my favorite Masses of the year, I know there will be much swallowing of pride and much reflection on the stinkiness of my feet and much sniffling at the tenderness of the washing. I can feel the tears welling in my eyes at the thought of it.

Good thing my toddler will be with me for comic relief.

7: Prayer of Blessed Elizabeth of the Trinity

I’ve been trudging along in the Catechism, and I realize that this is going to take me years. (That’s OK. Nothing like a good hearty read, right?) This morning, as I was cozied up to it, I found this prayer and had to pause to write it down. It’s attributed to Blessed Elizabeth of the Trinity, and it was included in paragraph 260. Here it is:

O my God, Trinity whom I adore, help me forget myself entirely so to establish myself in you, unmovable and peaceful as if my soul were already in eternity. May nothing be able to trouble my peace or make me leave you, O my unchanging God, but may each minute bring me more deeply into your mystery! Grant my soul peace. Make it your heaven, your beloved dwelling and the place of your rest. May I never abandon you there, but may I be there, whole and entire, completely vigilant in my faith, entirely adoring and wholly given over to your creative action.

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Three Letters, One Word

A Mary Moment Monday post

It’s going to be a rough day. I knew that when I woke up, and I am not dreading it, much to my surprise. Maybe it’s because I know I’m in good company; maybe I got enough rest over the weekend to prepare me; maybe I am shielded by prayer.

The word of my day, of my week, of my life is three letters long. It’s not a hard word, until I consider its implications.

Yes.

I used to roll my eyes at the thought that one vote could change the outcome of an election.  Yeah right, the cynic in me said.

Now, years later, I see how one Yes has changed the world, and I wonder, with great hope, if one of my Yeses could have an impact.  So often, I say Yes to what seem like silly and inconsequential things.

“Mommy, can I have chocolate milk?”

“Honey, could you make my lunch?”

“Sarah, would you mind driving me [to a place]?”

Oh, I say Yes to big things too.  I’ve done big things, but I wonder, lately, if the big things are as important as the small things that I do with love

Sometimes — or is it all too often? — it’s far easier to say Yes to the big things than to the little ones. I can look at a stranger and say Yes without a breath, but do I have the same enthusiasm for that person who’s crawling under my skin and sticking needles on my nerves?

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This week we celebrate my favorite mystery of the rosary, the feast of the Annunciation on Thursday, March 25. (My favorite way to pray it is here.)  The day after that feast, on March 26, I’m going to start preparation for Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary.

Will you consider joining me? You may not have time to order or purchase a booklet before Friday, but all the prayers are online here, and they’re even available as MP3 downloads (scroll down).  If you’ve already done this practice, perhaps this is a time to renew it.  It’s no small commitment, but giving a gift like this to Jesus is never without many benefits and opportunities for growth.

More of my Mary meanderings:

  • More of my ponderings on saying Yes and the lessons I’ve learned from the Annunciation are at Faith & Family Live in my latest column, “One ‘Yes’ Can Change the World.”
  • Mary’s title “Comforter of the Afflicted” is one of the many I turn to when I find myself unsure of where to go, uncertain how to proceed.  It’s a title that inspires memories of a small hot head on my shoulder and the parade of little people we saw in Children’s Hospital on a visit a few years ago.  My column reflecting on this title, “Mary – Comforter of the Afflicted,” is up at Today’s Catholic Woman.
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